Face Predestined Relationship Calmly

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Face Predestined Relationship Calmly
In so many years, my mind was at rest because of my inborn calm. I was very simple, happy and thirst for knowledge from the innocent childhood, lively juvenile to romantic youth, from my primary school to college. Meanwhile, contented with the loving care from my family and friends.

I thought these above were all the intension of the life. Until one day seemed very accidental at my age of 27,I was very lucky to be bathed in aureoles of Buddhist and Taoist and my congenital spirit was awakened, at that moment I knew the 27-years experience is only one drop of invisible water in historical river. What made me more surprised is why I overlooked the mysterious world that is so bright and colorful. In fact, I’m not careless at all. Why I ignored it for 27 years? All things seemed quite incredible, but I had to believe them, and I came back to my nature. Since then, I am never the one that don’t know who I am and stepped into a peaceful world full of Buddhist aureole and Taoist Qi. I was remade, and a kind of happiness being unable to describe by any words leaded me to the front with brilliant hope. The road is long, but I had no regrets; the journey is hard, but I felt very charming. So I went through my past, go into my present and have been to the place that many people haven’t gone. Although I met rain and wind, and sometimes cried bitters tears in the wind, I never stopped. As you know, my heart yearns for the water lily pond, the pond being saint, spotless and bright.

The cleaner the heart is, the clearer the head is. At long last, a predestined relationship of long time ago appeared in front of myself. With mingled feelings of sorrowed and joy and tears in my eyes, I began writing to my respectable teacher. When the letter with answers flied to me, the inculcation from my teacher was given, which made me knew the nature law: “Don’t be joyful or refuse when you face the predestined relationship, also don’t be sorrow or urge when it is leaving.” Gradually, I understand how to face good predestined relationship calmly and how to deal with bad relationship leniently, and then try my best to turn the bad one into a good circle.

After that time, I have heard about many of my climates and friends talked about the various predestined relationship that is probably not true among them. Some of them kept it in mind constantly, thinking about it again and again, and indulged in exaggeration. Someone even fell into the dreamland of predestined relationship and couldn’t walk out. Obviously, It’ll do harm to us if we persist in the destiny things, change our mind rashly and idle away time. In reality, Biological science is very profound and mysterious. The predestined relationship will become true because of the space—time continuing and karma’s circling, which is as natural as the movement of the world and the alternation of day and night. We shouldn’t talk about it easily if we don’t know the cause and create some visionary world with our heart and regard the visionary as true. We should treasure the unique relationship and grasp it exactly to make our future better naturally.

All things of both the ancient and the modern are all illusions. The past, not matter it’s wonderful or bitter, is only the past events and the songs of history forever. The sorrow of mankind is that we often indulge in calling to mind the past and try our best to live the best life, which idle many of our time.

The “Tao” is light; it demands us to be relaxed. Perhaps, the cause is only a knot on our heart. It’ll become a knot being unable to untie and affected us all the life with love and sorer if we think about it with the acquired mind. But it also can be a beautiful bow and the ancient story will be sublimated into the fine scenery if we can face it very calmly, know how to treasure it, and have the courage to create the brilliant future on basis of the present.

The predestined relationship of thousand years ago, Let’s face it very calmly. Let’s only leave our light—hearted receding figure at the horizon when it comes.